Tonight’s Topic: The Rebound Girl: Better to Bounce than to Break?
Titile is from “Is it a date or is it just coffee?”, a fantastic book about lesbian relationships, but it applies across the board. If you are on the rebound, do you bounce, or do you break?
I’ve done both. In my most current relationship, I was in between two guys (which made me feel constantly on the rebound) and finally settled on one. Best move ever. But I have also taken the time to just happily be alone.
Rebounding is hard because often you don’t give yourself the chance to heal before moving your ass onto someone else. This can lead to a POOR set of decision making and ruin the next relationship/hookup/one night/friendship that you come across in a big way.
Sometimes you gotta break rebound girl. Sometimes there is too much forward force for you not to.
Listen tonight at whrwfm.org! 9:30pm!
And as always,
Kate
